It is somewhat ironic, then, that a man known for for his upbeat temperament could never shake the memory of a single traumatic event he experienced during his childhood upbringing in Connecticut. Born in the Bronx in 1931, Reilly moved with his family to Hartford as a young boy and grew up there, eventually attending the prestigious Hartt School of Music at the University of Hartford after discovering his love for music and the theater.
When he was 13, he and a friend attended the ill-fated Ringling Bros circus of July 6, 1944 which turned into one of the worst human disasters in Connecticut history after the big top tent caught fire and turned into a hellish death trap.
The Hartford Circus Fire ended up killing over 160 people and injuring hundreds more, most of them women and children. Reilly and his friend were able to leap off the bleachers and escape without harm, but later in life, while filming a one-man autobiographical play, Reilly described in detail the horror of seeing children wandering the scene with burned, mutilated faces. The incident so traumatized Reilly that in spite of his lifelong love of acting and the theater, he himself never sat in an audience again, claiming that being part of a large crowd reminded him of that terrible day in 1944. An actor famous for making people smile, but secretly haunted by a childhood tragedy in Hartford, is remembered today in Connecticut history.
Ann Marie Somma, “Actor Never Forgot Roots in Hartford,” Hartford Courant
Charles Nelson Reilly, “The Life of Reilly: The Hartford Circus Fire,” youtube.com